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How To Love Others {Without Losing Yourself}

boundaries enneagram faith love motherhood podcast Feb 10, 2021

Do you love helping people? 

Do you want others to like you and think well of you? 

But, do you feel trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of pleasing people? 

Often people pleaser’s like you {and me} get stuck giving endlessly without thanks and without receiving anything in return. 

There is a better way.

Because, the number #1 way to love others without losing yourself is to stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, and inadequacy dictate your actions. 

Easier said than done, right?

That's why Dr. Mike Bechtle has written his new book, THE PEOPLE PLEASER"S GUIDE TO LOVING OTHERS WITH LOSING YOURSELF to help you to rebuild your sense of self-worth.

As Dr. Mike began to research advice for people pleasers he kept finding the same mantra, "Start putting your own needs first!"

But he found more often than not, this trite advice just doesn't work.

And it doesn't work, because you LOVE helping people.

Thankfully, there is a solution, and it isn't to fundamentally change who you are- it's changing where you find your worth.

In this week's Wednesday episode, Dr. Mike and I are going to dive into steps that you can take to make what once was a struggle and turn it into one of your greatest strengths.

Of course, we will talk about faith, Enneagram, and motherhood.

I know you will find Dr. Mike Bechtle's kind, fathering voice to be exactly what you needed to hear today.